Follow:
Browsing Tag:

non fiction

    books, review

    Review | When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi

    When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi

    Published by Vintage, 2017 (first published 2016)

    For readers of Atul Gawande, Andrew Solomon, and Anne Lamott, a profoundly moving, exquisitely observed memoir by a young neurosurgeon faced with a terminal cancer diagnosis who attempts to answer the question What makes a life worth living?

    At the age of thirty-six, on the verge of completing a decade’s worth of training as a neurosurgeon, Paul Kalanithi was diagnosed with stage IV lung cancer. One day he was a doctor treating the dying, and the next he was a patient struggling to live. And just like that, the future he and his wife had imagined evaporated. When Breath Becomes Air chronicles Kalanithi’s transformation from a naïve medical student “possessed,” as he wrote, “by the question of what, given that all organisms die, makes a virtuous and meaningful life” into a neurosurgeon at Stanford working in the brain, the most critical place for human identity, and finally into a patient and new father confronting his own mortality.

    What makes life worth living in the face of death? What do you do when the future, no longer a ladder toward your goals in life, flattens out into a perpetual present? What does it mean to have a child, to nurture a new life as another fades away? These are some of the questions Kalanithi wrestles with in this profoundly moving, exquisitely observed memoir.

    Paul Kalanithi died in March 2015, while working on this book, yet his words live on as a guide and a gift to us all. “I began to realize that coming face to face with my own mortality, in a sense, had changed nothing and everything,” he wrote. “Seven words from Samuel Beckett began to repeat in my head: ‘I can’t go on. I’ll go on.'” When Breath Becomes Air is an unforgettable, life-affirming reflection on the challenge of facing death and on the relationship between doctor and patient, from a brilliant writer who became both.

    Well, here’s a book you probably don’t want to read on the bus home from work.  It is emotionally draining and if you’re a cryer, this one will get you.  Imagine being a brilliant surgeon, finally reaching everything you had dreamed of, only to have those dreams destroyed by cancer.  Imagine knowing everything a highly trained surgeon would know about cancer and knowing that this thing is growing inside your very own body and that it will kill you.  Imagine fighting to save other people’s life while you are also fighting to save your own.  What an incredible man Paul Kalanithi was.

    “I began to realize that coming in such close contact with my own mortality had changed both nothing and everything. Before my cancer was diagnosed, I knew that someday I would die, but I didn’t know when. After the diagnosis, I knew that someday I would die, but I didn’t know when. But now I knew it acutely. The problem wasn’t really a scientific one. The fact of death is unsettling. Yet there is no other way to live.”

    His writing is beautiful and literary, but it also feels personal and conversational and is quick and easy to read.  I put off reading this book for a while as I thought it would be quite depressing.  I needed to be in the right frame of mind.  And it clearly deals with some depressing topics, but moreover it is a beautifully moving and heart-wrenching memoir.  4 stars